Forgiveness

Hmmm it's been some 11 days break. It's been a refreshing one don't ask me for the details. Forgiveness is vital in every relationship no matter the sexes involved.
I think we can only forgive when the other person has repented, but if you have a partner who constantly cheats please walk away or perhaps you know why you are in it.

Truth is when your partner finds out that you cheated, chances are that they would keep reminding you of your past.

Forgive and forget,inorder to feel again. To be continued........................

How do I forgive?

Papa and Araba have in a relationship for close to 4 years. It's match made in heaven. They have been there for each other all throughout. Araba goes on a year abroad program, Papa helped to pay her fees and paid for the accommodation. She came back to find out that Papa has a baby with an older woman( Kafui). The DNA suggests that indeed Papa is the father of the child.

Papa still loves Araba and has promised he is going to marry her, regardless of the current situation. She is in a fix now because Kafui doesn't even give them breathing space. Let me spare you all the details for now...................

How do I forgive a man who has betrayed me?

Cheating and Forgiveness- I

Stay tuned for another piece on cheating and going through the process of forgiveness,I believe in one thing that it is good to forgive and forget inorder to feel again. Our next piece would be thought provoking and I hope that we all learn lessons from it. Your comments on any of the topics are still welcome. Keep your fingers crossed..........

Cheating in Relationships II

I am still waiting for your responses on cheating, I am grateful for the comments on this topic but am asking because sometimes we cheat and still claim to love our partners. The "cheaters" claim their partners pushed them to cheat. Interestingly enough, most of us or all of us have cheated on our partners before, some think cheating is only when you sleep with another person other than your partner, others say you cheat when you spend more time with the other person other than your partner-be it on the phone,hanging out etc.

So this is my question, when does cheating start,and if you love me why would you cheat on me in the first place?

Cheating in Relationships- What is it at all?

It's a new week, new expectations, new challenges and renewed strength and favour from God. It has been a tiring weekend for me, coupled with the fact that i wasn't too well and my very good friend is also very ill. Aah well i am praying for all of you for good health and strength in the coming year.

Today I want to discuss cheating in relationships. I recall having a discussion with a friend on this same topic, she said when you chat with someone more on your phone than you would with your boo it is considered cheating. So now am getting confused, when does cheating start and what is it at all?

Friendship- The Opposite Sex

Just when I was thinking of what our next topic of discussion was going to be, I found myself asking this question, can a man and a woman just be friends? I have a number of male friends each of them inspire me in different ways. Some of them only get in touch when they need a favour , others call you once in a while to find out if you have a new boyfriend, others are there for you all the time......they are come in handy.

Truth is i love each of them in entirely different ways, for me, the love we share isn't about dating, or who to jump into bed with, it's about trust, understanding,sharing of ideas and being there for each other regardless of the situation.

I have this philosophy that- the fact that two people are in love doesn't necessarily mean they should be in a relationship. The first time I said this to one of male friends he thought I had gone nuts but I still stand by this.

My question is- Can I indisputably love my male friends or a male friend and my boo at the same time?

Thank you all for the comments, am very grateful to all who read and did not comment and those who commented on this piece, i think we are all doing just fine and we will surely get there, stay tuned for the next captivating piece on Friday the 13th ! Cheers!

Most people meet their life partners in school especially in the tertiary institutions or others right from the First cycle or Second cycle institutions,others meet them when they enter the Corporate World,but what if your life partner did not get the opportunity to go all the schools you attended or better still has little or no education at all. But trust me, he is not doing badly at all- he is currently setting up his own business to make ends meet but the problem is the man never gets his expressions right, his diction is terrible and and his tenses, the least said about them , the better and yet you love him very much,you guys understand each other and get along pretty well, isn't that what a relationship is all about?
But it's your friends and family they do not understand why a woman with a 2nd Degree in Corporate Communications - (the irony) is doing with a man who has " only" a Senior Secondary School Certificate.
Seroiusly,would you typically date someone who is in a 'lower social class'than you are- in terms of education ?

Welcome to a Woman's World, where we ask all the questions and try to get answers as well, you will find this very intriguing. We will talk about Education, Finances, Health and of course relationships am sure you knew this was definitely coming up. Stay tuned!