Looks?

Just yesterday I went to Melcom with two of my colleagues at lunch time. The traffic was crazy- a journey that usually takes 20 mins took us an hour. By the time we got there, all of us were exhausted especially my pregnant colleague.

I didn't intend to buy anything even though I had 40 cedis in my pocket and 50 cedis in my purse ,but like the typical woman that I am, I ended up buying a few things. Whilst we were still looking around, my other colleague asked me if I had dropped any money- it was 15 Cedis, then I realised that there was no money in my pocket . My 40 cedis was gone, then one of the attendants told us that she had seen some 5 cedi notes on the floor.

She said she had given the money to a girl who claimed the money was hers, now I was getting worried, 40 cedis could easily get me a new pair of shoes.

I walked up to the "girl" who was with someone I suspected to be her " boo" - and there she was counting the money. I told her the money was 25 cedis and I was right. I took it from her without any hesitation.

So question is why take the money when it is not yours? A pretty girl with her nice guy by her side ready to use my " small money" for shopping!!!!

Desperation

Now we are done with forgiving your partner after they have cheated and asked for forgiveness, you cannot certainly forgive when you do not know what they have done. So first they have to repent and then you can forgive. The choice is entirely yours, but learn to forgive that is the only way can let go of the past. Enough of that.

I understand that , a lot of women these days are extremely desperate. At age 27 if you are not married, they believe that your biological clock begins to tick faster than normal. Hmmm one of my friends turns 27 next year and she is getting worried.She has never dated in her life- a few crushes here and there but no serious relationships, no heartbreaks, absolutely nothing..........Why are more women "desperate" to settle down with " anyone" who comes their way now.To the guys, if you are not lucky you just might get "trapped" with a baby mama.

Question- Why are women desperate to settle by age 26?

Desperation

Now we are done with forgiving your partner after they have cheated and asked for forgiveness, you cannot certainly forgive when you do not know what they have done. So first they have to repent and then you can forgive. Enough of that.

I understand that a lot of women these days are extremely desperate. At age 27 if you are married, they believe that the biological clock begins to tick faster than normal. Hmmm one of my friends turns 27 next year and she is getting worried.She has never dated in her life- a few crushes here and there but no serious relationships, no heartbreaks, absolutely nothing..........

Why are more women "desperate" to settle down with " anyone" who comes their way now.

To the guys, if you are not lucky you just might get "trapped" with a baby mama.


Question- Why are women desperate to settle by age 26?

Forgiveness

We talk about grudges the way we talk about babies. You can hold a grudge, carry a grudge, bear a grudge, or nurse a grudge. The trouble is, when you nurse something you feed it, make it grow, and pretty soon it's full grown. Are you carrying a grudge? Why? It doesn't make sense. Why would you pick up something each day that weighs you down and carry it around with you? "But they hurt me." Yes, but by carrying a grudge you enable them to keep hurting you. Don't do that to yourself!We know we're supposed to forgive other people, but sometimes forgiving feels like we are giving up something. But if you are carrying a grudge, are you any different? Let go and let God, forgiving is letting go of the past,but if you can't deal with a cheating spouse please walk away.

Forgiveness

We talk about grudges the way we talk about babies. You can hold a grudge, carry a grudge, bear a grudge, or nurse a grudge. The trouble is, when you nurse something you feed it, make it grow, and pretty soon it's full grown. Are you carrying a grudge? Why? It doesn't make sense. Why would you pick up something each day that weighs you down and carry it around with you? "But they hurt me." Yes, but by carrying a grudge you enable them to keep hurting you. Don't do that to yourself!We know we're supposed to forgive other people, but sometimes forgiving feels like we are giving up something. Forgiving is letting go of the past. Let go let God,but if you can't deal with the cheating spouse just walk away.