Wednesday 13 January 2010

Something to think about.

Julius and Jean have been married for three years. Prior to the union, they vowed not to engage in sexual relations. There were a few temptations along the road, but they pulled through and stood on their grounds.He's a 32-year-old lawyer. She's a 30 -year- old Marketing Consultant. He says they never fight, and in many ways they're compatible -- but not when it comes to sex.
Two years into the marriage, they have consulted almost all the therapists in this country, but all to no avail, in reality they act like siblings.
Julius is seeing someone else and Jean is seeing a colleague in her office. Both of them are Youth Leaders in the church. What happened to marriage being a convenant and not a contract?

According to a survey conducted by CNN, money isn't the problem in marriages but the fact that people do not take a holistic approach to issues when they are dating especially sex.So will it be infidelity or sex before marriage?? Ahh well, I do not have answers to this, you do.

1 comment:

  1. I don't know but we enter into marrige or relationships because of different reasons. When you talk of it being a contract, then it means the main focus being money is what patners look for and you can bear me witness that after the money is gone, such marriges break up with immediate effect. Sex before marrige is a sin looking at it from the Biblical perspective but to me sex before marriage from my little experience should never be encouraged.

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