The most important part of knowing how to save a relationship is knowing when to start looking for problems. No relationship is completely perfect. It may be perfect in the beginning, but after you both get comfortable with each other, the “cracks” start to appear.
It’s little things at first. Maybe he doesn’t like the way you put the toilet paper on the roll or maybe you don’t like that he never puts it on the roll to begin with. When you’re done with all the newness of a relationship, then your personal preferences start to shine through. You never really cared about it before because you were dealing with the flood of emotions that love brings with it.
As you settle in to this new love and things get more comfortable, then you start to notice when he plays with one of your pet peeves.
It’s not that he wasn’t doing them all along; it’s just that now you are really noticing them. Guess what, sister… he’s starting to see everything that you do that he doesn’t like. Having your eyes and communication open is your best defense in how to save a relationship.
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SOO TRUE ma sister exactly on point.i Guess it goes to really say LOVE is INDEED BLINDING but for a while.
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